Grow up when? He's a child since forever.
Planning relations?
HunterSpoiler for Hiden: Maybe perhaps it is how I was taught by my mentor, and how I'm meant to live my life as a mage following the Code of Ananda, helping others and yada yada, but I actually feel the need to help you, as it wasn't your fault all that you've gone through and people can't see that. I'm here for you.
the white knight in edgy armor